“New family caregivers face a dizzying array of unexpected challenges. This inspiring, reassuring, and easy-to-read book from two of the nation's leading experts in family caregiving will help you navigate this new landscape. Clear, helpful, well informed, and wise.”

—Katy Butler, author of Knocking on Heaven's Door and The Art of Dying Well


“Family caregivers will repeatedly turn to this superb companion for support, advice, and affirmation. The authors' kindness and humility are palpable as they unflinchingly cover the hard questions caregivers face—many of which they experienced themselves. The compassionate language, accessible format, and nuts-and-bolts topics make this book a beacon of light.”

—Carol Bradley Bursack, caregiver support group facilitator and columnist, “Minding Our Elders”


“Whether you’ve been caring for a loved one for years, you’re just getting started, or you think you may need to do it soon, the AARP Caregiver Answer Book is invaluable, comforting, and illuminating. Drs. Jacobs and Mayer brilliantly mix insights from clinical practice and research with their own challenging experiences taking care of their parents. An indispensable resource.”

—Stephen Fried, coauthor of Profiles in Mental Health Courage